The WASSCE results
were released earlier this month and I felt the customary-tension such results
releases have on the individual even though I wrote mine way back in 2008.
I
have yet to meet a SHS graduate who didn’t feel the pressures of this pivotal
moment in one’s life and make no bones about it, it’s very crucial. It is also
very true that what you accomplish in your youth goes a long way to determining
what you will be in the future.
It
is the period where life really starts depending on the grades you get. Some
might think I am being melodramatic but the final year in SHS is very stressful
for everyone that has been through it.
I
recall listening to the news with my mother when it was announced that a final
year SHS student had taken their own life and she asked which kind of pressures
that students face that could lead them to taking their own life. I didn’t
speak up because I didn’t want to scare her but it’s a very pressuring feeling
knowing that 8 papers and how well you do in them could lead to what kind of
future you will have.
In
this country, we are conditioned with the mantra of “go to school, learn hard
and find a good job”. It is also very rare that you meet successful people in
Ghana who didn’t pass those 8 papers very well (passing
and passing very well are very different things). But as Ghana waits
for her first Bill Gates the fact is, of my mates who didn’t pass those papers
and are very successful now, most are engaged in cyber fraud a.k.a. Sakawa.
The
late Samuel Kwame Kissi (who offered
science like me) , formerly of my alma mater St Thomas Aquinas SHS
passed his exams but didn’t pass them very well because he wanted to pursue
Medicine and got the respectable grade of aggregate 17 (which
included an A1 in Integrated Science and C4 in Biology). This may
have led to Kwame Kissi taking his own life.
According
to the Headmaster of Aquinas, Kwame was an average-student who did better in
the WASSCE than he did in both mocks before the exam but the entry requirements
meant he had no chance of pursuing Medicine especially given the admission
pressures on Universities this year.
Kwame
according to his housemaster was a humble student who could not bypass a
teacher without offering a greeting. I don’t want to blame anybody but was he made
aware that he could write a remedial and with a little effort still pursue his
dream. Or was it that maybe he couldn’t deal with those conversations that
those of us who don’t make it the first time have to endure with mates,
conversations about varsity life where they all contribute with campus stories
of their own and you feel left out because you have no such stories.
At
this point all I can do is speculate and as Kwame's mother declined comment we
cannot get an insight into his life at home. Given that the incident occurred
whiles he was not in school, no definite conclusions can be drawn.
my 3Sc2 class of 2008 |
Yes,
there were counsellors when I attended Aquinas but I never felt like I could go
and discuss such issues with them or my friends
(through no fault of theirs obviously). It’s also not very
encouraging when some teachers take it upon themselves to be prophets of doom
by telling stories like “how in the future you might see your own mates and hide
depending on how well you do”. I suppose such teachers can find better ways of
motivating students than scaring them into submission.
I
am at the end of this piece but I don’t know how to end, if anyone wrote an exam
and is feeling down about his/her grades all I can say is; LIFE IS NOT A RACE COS IF IT WERE WE WOULD ALL HAVE BEEN BORN ON THE
SAME DAY.
Written with extracts from an
interview on Peace FM on the 20th of August 2013 at 12:00p.m.
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